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I feel it is very hard to make "permanent" progress, like this is a mind virus that keeps coming back — I'm 39M. I met my partner when I was 36. Dated for 2 years, now we have lived together for 1 year. I've made progress over these 3 years but I feel like it's very easy to "reset" and get back down int…
Success Story: FA/Disorganized Attachment Healing Roadmap, Resource Recommendations — **Hello, fellow Fearful Avoidants! The below post has grown out of almost 3 years of research and healing this attachment style, which in my case was coupled with Relationship OCD (ROCD). ROCD is a vi…
Saw the same man I've been seeing as a kid — I'm sorry about the use of A.I but my drawing skills are bad and I don't know how to explain this but I've seen this man in my dreams ever since I was a child. I remember seeing shows like Tom and Jer…
a 2.5 gram mushroom trip — I’m writing this a few weeks after this trip. This was my third time tripping on shrooms, and I had just bought 5 grams of magic mushrooms that I was told were pretty strong, so I chose to only eat ha…
Plain "lost feelings" or might she be an avoidant?! — We were together eight weeks. No conflicts, no issues. She was fully invested, she initiated equally (or even more), said "I love you" first after one month, made future plans for the summer and easte…
I 24 f got a dm that I think is about my 28 m husband and idk what to do. How can I bring this up to him without sounding accusatory? — So earlier today I got a dm on instagram and all she said was “I have seen him a couple of times”. I happened to be on my phone when I got it and it peaked my interest so I answered immediately asking…
My story of confusion - need advice — In early 2024, I met a woman from another country, and we embarked on a long-distance relationship that initially felt like a rare, once-in-a-lifetime connection. For the first two months, we were in …
Spirit/Ghost Chronicles, Part One: Ghosts at my Grandparents House — This is a very popular topic that I've read many experiences about, but not a lot of people in my life see ghosts/spirits so I wanted to connect with people who have had similar experiences. I detail…
My mother set me up and got policemen and EMR to aggressively restrain me and put me in the ambulance when I least expected — I am mortified. The whole scene was scandalous, never had I ever felt so humiliated. It happened last Friday when I was just about to take a shower before I continued packing my belongings to move o…
Day 8 of NC. I walked away from the girl I wanted to marry because of family interference and her playing games. The urge to break NC is killing me tonight. — I’m a little over a week into strict No Contact, and it's hitting me incredibly hard tonight. I’m posting this here because I'm genuinely struggling not to unblock her just to hear her voice, and I ne…
I make my life worst — Im 17. I am dumb, no early childhood achievements, no achievements at all that are important, probably not any at all. Im a complete idiot, I can’t reason, analyze, follow instructions, common sense a…
I Know I Can Do Well, So Why Can’t I Focus When It Matters Most? — I'm 18, standing at one of the most important points of my life, preparing for a major exam with Physics, Mathematics, and Chemistry as my core subjects. Chemistry feels like my strength, Math is som…
Sex search after divorce — Ladies, serious advice needed. I'm 57M, divorced over a year. My ex and I cut off all physical contact a year before we split. We were together 15 years and had a passionate and ongoing romance until …
My (28F) boyfriend (25M) is too scared to have sex. Where do I go from here? — Hi reddit. Throw away account. I’ll use fake names for the sake of the story. I, 28F, have been with my partner John, 25M for 2 and a half years now. The beginning of our relationship was more emotio…
I'm 28F asking for advice with my bf, 42M, relationship of 4.5 years. What would you do if you were in my situation? — Yes, we have an age gap. We have been together for 4.5 years now, living together in our house (house is under my name so technically it's mine; I have left his name off of everything because we're n…
I've only been in a (short term) relationship once that crossed valentine's day, 7 years ago. She didn't get or do anything for me, and we had only started going out a couple weeks prior so I simply t…
Life can change for the better in an instant. You never want to be someone who peaked too soon
Things peaked the last weekend of January. Several days after that, there was a very noticeable shift in engagement. Same thing happened back in November. This time she stayed very responsive to texts…
https://preview.redd.it/xy1r69512fog1.jpeg?width=1486&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=da3b78e464465d080fa6c7e4521357a0096811ae I saved this from a different discussion on LNY/CNY but you can see how LNY(Red)…
So here's what happened at each conjunction specifically: 1917 (Saturn-Neptune conjunct in Leo): Russian Revolution. The entire Tsarist economic system was dismantled. Banks nationalized. Private …
Yeah, I’d say they probably peaked. More likely that younger groups carry on with one breaking out finally in time like BTS did.
eHarmony is a scam in the US as well. It peaked about 15 years ago and developed a reputation for being unfriendly to the LGBTQ+ community, so it’s mostly religious and military, there aren’t many peo…
At "10 Day Wedding" it's giving Bride is Veruca Salt. She and her sister and friends seem like they peaked in high-school and don't realize they're 30 year old women now.
Yep, one year after Covid, my chosen fam all got together for an epic UG rave in the cascades. We had one last vial of the Elvis (if you know you know specifically by that small batch analog). Welp, t…
This wouldn’t have peaked your interest if you didn’t have a gut feeling about your husband. Dig deeper. Call the number yourself or have a friend call. Find out if there’s a way to do a reverse phone…
I'm imagining this woman saying "bye" and then turning around to just straight up sprinting b-line for the exit 🤣 Jokes aside, I get it. You gotta be pretty smooth to gage the vibe; not seem too eag…
Since its such a metaphysical topic, I feel it’s something people usually explore on their own and come to their own conclusions about. Not to mention, there is NO REAL Answer and no matter what, ther…
orb tightness sets the vibe 0-3 degrees is peak intensity for majors like squares or trines, anything wider mellows out quick. Applying ones ramp up the energy since they're closing in, separating fee…
Sorry to hear this. But this was bound to happen anyway. You started having unfriendly periods since July 2024, sun moon mars periods all affect you and family in health finance career relationship me…
Once you have got the basics down, the next level is applying vs separating. Check whether the faster planet is moving toward the slower one (applying) or away from it (separating). Applying aspects …
Happy Easter all! Currently eating an M&Ms chocolate egg with mini M&Ms in it! I think we’ve peaked as a society, honestly. Doesn’t get better than this. Also went for a run this morning so I feel…
Whenever I hit a "shifting drought" or lose motivation, I would just try to tap back into what peaked my interest in the first place. For example, the excitement of exploring the multiverse, the abili…
Actually—the rate of divorce peaked several decades ago when no-fault divorce became a thing. And has been gradually decreasing ever since.
I’m going through something very similar. I suffered SA at an extremely early age When I was around 9 or 10, I started consuming pornography. not for its own sake. My dad had movies, and he left them…
Ok so I can answer this pretty thoroughly as a 4th gen Japanese American. The Japanese American community is a shell of what it once was. The only 2 places that still have a sizeable community are H…
I’m no “hot girl”, but my insecurities surrounding my looks caused me to get stomped on by a lot of men. In order to feel desirable I did a lot of things that I regret. I went on shitty dates, made ou…