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Now I get the word - "decide" - I read Brazen Impudence a few months back, but never thought of it seriously until I read your comment!

Beginner's question — # Hello, I wish everyone wonders! # I need to answer a beginner's question about training. The affirmation exercise must be carried out with the affirmation presented in the index or we can replace…

Type 1 Diabetes — Hi everyone, I have recently been diagnosed with type 1 diabetes and have had to start taking insulin injections. I don’t want to live like this forever though, completely dependent on something so m…

Happy New Year and Bye-bye 2024: 6th Kill - $20,000 from Futures Trading — # 6th Kill: $20,000 Money Mission **Mission**: To make $20,000 from futures trading **What I achieved:** I made $20,000 from futures trading **How long did it take:** 5 and a half months **Backgro…

I just proved that a crappy industry is literally pissing away money — I constantly preach about template fraud and those "pretty but useless" websites that don't deliver actual business results. This week, I decided to prove my point. I spotted a security product in th…

Matching drop shadows across CSS, Android, iOS, Figma, and Sketch — I’ve known for ages that shadows didn’t match, so I decided to do lots of research and find out how to get them to match. I wrote the article. Feel free to AMA. :D

Monthly Getting Started / Web Dev Career Thread — Due to a growing influx of questions on this topic, it has been decided to commit a monthly thread dedicated to this topic to reduce the number of repeat posts on this topic. These types of posts will…

How do I hire someone to work the SEO part of launching my site? — I'm a Realtor that knows enough PHP/Laravel/Wordpress to make a site. I know very, very little about SEO and most of what I've learned is simply thgrough Moz and that sort of thing. I really need to …

Am I Overcomplicating This Workshop? (Personas or Empathy first? — Hey everyone! I need some advice on structuring a workshop for a client’s new product. They’re unclear on the direction (app/web/game?), target audience, or features, so I suggested a workshop to alig…

Need an advise for my website — Hi there, I need your help because I’m struggling to get a higher ranking on Google for my website. I’m a Psychologist and Psychotherapist, and I have been working in a small city near Milan, Italy.si…

Choice of 2 short part-time DM courses (Ireland)? — Does anyone have any experience of either the UCD Professional Academy Diploma in Digital Marketing or the Marketing Institute of Ireland (MII) Strategic Digital Marketing Diploma micro-credential run…

We open-sourced internet’s largest incident response glossary with over 500+ terms — We just published a public glossary with **500+ terms** related to incident response, on-call, alerting, SLOs, postmortems, and more. I think this is perhaps the internet's largest glossary for incide…

My co-founder decided to quit: I'm stuck and could really use some advice | I will not promote — Hey All, A few months ago, I shared my story here (original Reddit post in comments) about starting an IT consultancy business in the Netherlands with a friend right after graduation. At that time, w…

Landing page review for a brand new ecommerce store — Hi all, Beginning of this year, me and my best friend decided to launch a pickleball brand that focus more on feminine side (you see what I mean when you visit the website), as we see the market is f…

How to decide cache lifespan (cache expiration time) — Hello technical SEO experts, im a newbie to WordPress seo. I just want to know if you're using a page optimization plugin like WP Rocket or LS Cache, how much time is the sweetspot for cache expiratio…

I designed an AI-powered path planner, but users lean toward heavy learning goals — need help rethinking the UX direction — Hi UXer! I’m a solo founder & designer, currently building a lightweight learning platform that uses AI to generate custom learning paths and micro flashcards. I designed it to support curious, self-…

I created a free WhatsApp chat for your site — After about a year, I finished my first service which I decided to make free. It's a chat widget — https://supportiko.com — that you can install on your website in 5 minutes using copy-paste. Visitors…

How to decide what to priorotize when you have limited time? — There are so many levers you can pull to improve a website's SEO performance. How do you actually decide which are more vs less important tasks to do, when you can only do some because of limited hour…

I’ve decided to go all in on my mental health tech startup — how do I fully shift from side project mindset to founder mindset? - i will not promote — Hi, I run a platform with digital tools to help people build mental strength and emotional resilience. Until now, I’ve treated it like a serious side project, but starting today, I’m committing to it…

Building a paid video course site on WordPress — Hey everyone, I’m building a WordPress site that will work like Udemy — users will pay to access video lessons. I’ll be uploading football training videos, and only paid users should be able to watch…

I built a VSCode extension that shows array sizes directly in your code—would love feedback from other devs! — Hey everyone! I’ve been working on a VSCode extension called **Array Size Extension**, and I wanted to share it with you all to get some feedback or maybe help out others who run into the same proble…

Co-Founder wanted — Me: a decade in acquisition marketing for top brands in Europe. Responsible for P&L, decided if I’m responsible anyways, might as well be responsible for the whole damn thing, and the benefits it come…

A customers perspective of those horrible cart conversion emails — Usually a website does a poor job of informing me what shipping will be. I must add items to a cart and hit checkout and type in an address to see what shipping would be. However, this process results…

High Margin Whitelabeled Stevia Product - looking for someone to take over — Hi all. Long story short I came in contact with a manufacturer in South America for a very, very good Stevia product that I use by myself and decided I wanted to try to sell in the states which I’ve w…

Why ex-tech creators are bad fit for conferences? — I haven’t been to many design-related conferences throughout my career, but I decided to give a CoCreate Conference a shot. I won’t go into the event organization here – just the speakers. From what I…

Personal Blog and Portfolio: Feedback?! — I have posted many blog articles on GitHub and other sites before and decided I want to have a personal homepage where they are all to find. I want to use this website as my portfolio as well. It's f…

I made $32 after 16 months of coding. Was it all a waste of time? — Over the last 16 months, I’ve done something that sounds cooler than it really is: I built a SaaS. In my free time, at night, on weekends, while everyone else was at the beach or watching Netflix, I …

Anyone facing issue with Cloudflare recently of suddenly not honoring "Access-Control-Allow-Headers" set by origin? — Is anyone facing this recent issue lately where all the sudden, you're getting thrown Access-Control-Allow-Headers error across all proxied domains. Cloudflare proxy, out-of-the-blue, decided not to h…

Critical CSS Generator Tool — I searched online for tools to extract the critical css of a website for one of my clients, I couldn't find one that did the job, I managed to get the result I needed after using Puppeteer locally and…

A great copywriter is worth their weight in gold — I've been building brands for 15 years. If you just got your first $20k-$100k budget to build your brand/web/app, let me humbly offer you a tip: # In 2025, the #1 thing that will affect how 'pro' you…

Freemium from day one, free trial, or free for first N users? — Hi all, I am building a productivity app where you can track anything from habits (e.g. Meditate on frequency basis) to events (e.g. Social Dance/Clubbing) to build routines and track what matters to…

Help with agency name — I brainstormed names for a digital marketing and communications agency. Which of the following would you choose? Help me decide. Thanks. ** Bliss Marketing ** Maxim Digital Creative ** BlueMaxim ** B…

Created a website completely using firebase studio and gemini 2.5-pro — I'm primarily a Machine Learning developer with about 8 years under my belt. I've always wanted to build my own web project but had absolutely no prior experience with front-end or back-end web develo…

What made you hate component libraries? — Component libraries make life a lot easier, cause I don't need to spend 6 hours trying to figure out why my dropdown menu won't align to the middle by 3 and half pixels. However, as time goes on you …

Backstage feels like a fools errand — The employee I replaced was promoting backstage and now its all my company wants to talk about. Recently I looked up the custom runner he had to develop in react to get templates to run bash scripts,…

Help with agency name — I brainstormed names for a digital marketing and communications agency. Which of the following would you choose? Help me decide. Thanks. ** Bliss Marketing ** Maxim Digital Creative ** BlueMaxim ** …

Do push/pull dynamics happen even when you’re not participating in them? — I (F, 32, originally AP, now definitely more secure) have just gone through a very confusing dating experience. 3 months ago I started seeing this man (34 met on Hinge). He started off very interested…

ELI5: What is TDD and BDD? Also, TDD vs BDD? — I wrote this short article about TDD vs BDD because I couldn't find a concise one. It contains code examples in every common dev language. Maybe it helps one of you :-) Here is the repo: https://githu…

Where are y'all buying T-Shirts? — I'm looking for T-shirts I can sublimate print on. I am autistic and am opening my business soon. So I am also wondering: How many do you keep on hand in each size? How did you "test" the shirt …

I don't know what to do about my giveaway — I own a super small online jewellery business as a hobby, as I'm still in school. Since Mother's Day is coming up this Sunday, I decided to host a little giveaway for my few followers, expecting at mo…

Just Launched My Dev Tools Website - Looking for Your Feedback! 🚀 — Hey Reddit! I’m excited to share my new website with everyone here! It’s designed to be a one-stop destination for all your dev tool needs. I know there are similar sites out there, but I’ve often fo…

My impressions of Lovable 2.0 — # My impressions of Lovable 2.0 with key features and upgrades I always had mixed feelings about Lovable. But given the amount of attention Lovable 2.0 has received over the past few weeks, I decided…

I DID IT! Put in my notice today, focusing on my agency full time. — I've been working 70+ hour weeks for the last 16 months, working a full-time job as VP of Marketing for a Fortune 500 company while also getting my side hustle marketing agency off the ground. My agen…

Turns out I needed a "middleman" to have a successful relationship with a DA — Now the title may sound wild, but stick with me. # The Story So I (26M) have been dating someone (24F) who, as I came to realize, is a dismissive avoidant. It's been about a year now - though truthf…

Manifestation coach hired me and fucked me over — Hi everyone, this is my first post here and I’m writing because I’ve exhausted every other option. And I am FUCKING DONE WITH IT. I hope some of you will see this and help me to hold that person accou…

In an avoidant-anxious friendship, how much space should I be giving before I reach out? — The last 2 posts on the sub are about friendship and that encouraged me to post here as well. This is my friend of 5 years. We’ve gone from talking almost everyday to me being given the silent treat…

Why hasn’t sats worked for me a single time in over 10 years? — Yes I’ve been doing it for over 10 years. I decided to stop for now but I was doing it for over 10 years and it hasn’t worked for me even a single time in all those years(on different Reddit accounts …

Afraid of the "how" — Hi to all. I have been studying the law and this sub since many years, then left, then (1-2 months ago) came back. I had my fair share of watching coaches, reading the content proposed here (and more)…

If I could just stop deactivating!! (FA) — Follow up from some of my previous posts. I’m deactivating again. I think? Or maybe lost feelings for my partner and I’m just lying to myself and not wanting to let go. The thought of that makes me cr…

A little positive reflection for anyone feeling they’re in the trenches right now. — I only learnt what attachment theory was during a breakup with my most recent ex 2 years ago. When he dumped me seemingly out of the blue because ‘I deserved better’, ‘he needed to be alone.’ Etc etc …

I (re)earned my secure attachment this week. What a journey this has been. — I just wanted to share this diary dump with anyone who wants a success story. I believed myself to be FA/A for a long time, and this week I can finally call myself secure. TW: sexual assualt Despite …

Hello there guys. I've checked the FAQ but I didnt find an answer to one of my doubts and I cant find it elsewhere neither, so I decided to just throw the question: Q: Are there any bad (physical/psic…

Hello I just had the weirdest dream and I don't know how to look up my specific type of dream and was so shocked I decided to come here and write. I remember going to sleep around 12:30pm after wakin…

I actually like Neville for his psychological interpretations of the bible. Joseph Murphy is amazing too because his books are easy to understand and very practical. I do find most of Nevilles teachin…

thank you, very interesting insight, i guess is still down to our concious self to still understand whats what and whos who on the other side as well. Sometimes i do wonder, if on a higher dimension …

Hi! So I’m pretty new to this sub and currently trying to read up and decide what I think about AP. For a long time, I’ve believed that reality is a construct in the mind, or just a result of what our…

Yeah, I feel so much at peace now that I decided I am moving on and not looking back. Fuck him.

Can someone explain what the fuck just happened to me. I was trying to fall asleep and when i finally succeeded i woke up again at like 3 am i realised I couldn’t move it felt like i was moving but wh…

Respectfully, this is what happens when you only focus on material aspects and totally disregard the "spiritual woo woo." I'm not saying everyone ever needs to be enlightened, but there's a reason why…

Hello all, I am new to this site but I have been lucid dreaming since I was eight years old. I am now almost 66 years old. I had nightmares as a child. I decided that if I had a nightmare I would wak…

I can see you deeply care about her and I found it weird that you seem like a overall great dude but she still decided to end it. Have she mentioned the reasons why other than "dad wanted so"? I'm in…

So I just wrote a comment today on another post that might help too: You’re being too hard on yourself. Your divorce is completely fresh and you need to give yourself grace and allow yourself to feel…

I cheated on my wife back when she was still my girlfriend. I found out that my girlfriend of a couple months was pregnant. I lost my mind for a couple of weeks and went and cheated with my ex. I lied…

I could have written this myself. This describes exactly how I am feeling today, 2 weeks and 1 day after we decided to divorce. I hope you are healing and doing better now.

I realized after I read my initial response how much I repeated myself. Sigh, this shit is hard. Brain not firing on all pistons. The reason I asked for compassion is because he is acting like it’s a …

Hello, I'm Kale, and Im 34. I was just married 3 months ago after being in a loving 8+ year relationship with the kindest person I've ever met. Three days ago she told me she had developed a relation…

This is the way. My ex broke up with me last week on the phone before my dentist appointment. I had to cut the call short because I needed to make my appointment. I lied about watching a sad show on m…

Hi Ralumarian35 On Moonbeam's instructions, the mod team has decided to ban you for 4 months. From your post history, it is clear that you've read, thought about and understood the posts in the index…

I mean I know you want to feel superior. But why would your silence eat them up? They made a choice. The likely thought about it for a long time and were confident in their decision. They knew it was …

I’ve been lucid dreaming for a long time, unfortunately a lot in night terrors not a fun time. Also has anyone ever had strange encounters when they realize they’re dreaming and then decide to ask abo…

Let me tell you about the first experience I had with the LOB. Back then I only knew about Neville and read a few lectures here and there. In my 2nd year of University, in one of my exams, I did not …

It sounds like a hard job to decide what can stay and what should be removed. Say there was a post with a comment that could be taken negatively by the OP. Is that grounds for removing the comment? Wh…

I understand your POV. But I have decided that it is a necessary rule after months of observation. Thanks for understanding!

I did notice there are occasional “I am an abuser/racist/sexist” posts nowadays, although more time will be needed to observe and decide whether a rule about that will be necessary because as of now, …

If that's how you want to look at it. I quit smoking this year after 15 years. It took constant "affirming" in my mind that I was no longer a smoker. Same with losing a ton of weight. I decided I was …

1. Mental thoughts don’t become physical reality. Beliefs do. Repetitive mental thoughts turn into beliefs. 2. People in your world reflect your beliefs. Perhaps upon meeting someone you had an origi…

Only these from your long list above, can be argued to relate to the LOB : " *”Whenever He decrees a matter, He says to it, “Be!” and it is.” (Quran 2:117, 3:47, 19:35, 40:68) ☪️* *Prophet Muhamm…

I don't understand this. How can you decide to get better if you don't admit your faults in the first place?

>The objective of LOB or LOA is to build lasting faith, not just temporary faith, over the long term to effect change subconsciously in the face of obstacles in life no matter what negatives are in th…

If you have ever had to watch a secure friend get destroyed by someone with Anxious attachment it is awful. Sometimes healthy people get tired of being smothered and decide to end a relationship. An…

I feel like if it’s only been a week and you haven’t gotten physical and you’re not feeling it, it’s best to just leave. Running from a strong connection is different from running from someone you don…

My brother i think it's good you posted here bc you can begin to recognize you have anxious attachment. It was one date. Even if she's brushing you off and lost interest, she doesn't necessarily owe …

I think your self-respect and self-protection grew because you finally chose yourself when you decided to protect your peace against your toxic family member. I'm proud of you.

I don’t hate people. But if I have decided I do not want someone in my life, or that they are bad for my mental health, i am going to have a good reason for it. I don’t see the point in surface level …

Very condescending who are you to decide how much work I have to do? Very nasty person.

Did you try and address the concerns or did you just "forgive them" until you decided there's one last straw that you may or may not tell them about and bail? If so then that's toxic and unhealthy; I …

Oh, this is a cool topic, there is nothing cooler than the fucking time that is chasing us.  I was just in the middle of my first mission related to a new job. At that time I was already quite burnt…

ok so i typed up a hypothetical example haha let's say i have a coworker/acquaintance who seems like they'd have a lot in common with me, but we don't know each other well. i want to become closer to…

I’ve been having a similar experience with my ex. He ended things suddenly over text in December last year, and we haven’t spoken since then. But when we have to see each other (at work), he acts like…

DAs are already very self-critical. Most criticism we receive from others, we’re already aware of and have gone to great lengths to conceal and/or correct said issue. Even if said criticism is somethi…

These push-pull dynamics can be really tough. There's actually a whole cycle that happens, and understanding how it works is probably the only surefire way to ultimately get grounded enough to ride th…

> Question: Does Symfony block concurrent requests by design No. PHP applications run concurrently on each child process of the php-fpm interpreter, starting with a request and ending with it - unles…

Have you costed up the Grafana Cloud? We're a small organisation right now, but we're using Grafana Cloud and it's very cost effective for us. Our plan will be to eventually selfhost once we're at the…

20+ years in, I don't know what you mean by 'real devops'. A lot of questions come to mind. What platform are you using? What tools? What languages is the code being developed in? All of these decid…

I believe they wanted to understand it first, then they made an update to the prompt, then they decided to pull it. They did the right thing and likely would have pulled it sooner if the problem was …

i had similar requirements and decided on nomad : https://developer.hashicorp.com/nomad/docs/job-specification/scaling nomad seems to be perfect alternative if you don’t need cnis, pv, pki and hundre…

I'm not sure, our management decided we were going to use Backstage, and we're just starting to get it off the ground. As a service catalog to see ownership, dependencies, etc. in one place, it's pret…

Once I built a startup, I had loads of customers, then I struggled acquiring more customers, so I decided to call it a day, all the users were upset and started sending me message why you closing it w…

I’m a solo founder who’s been revenue only since day 1. Sure you can iterate fast and decide unilaterally but sometimes a sober second thought on things can get you out of trouble.  My advice to anyo…

You're absolutely right to question. This is such the norm in the dating scene, it's crazy! From my experience, what I can say is that you're definitely dealing with a DA type here. Idk if you got int…

This guy is too unhealthy. Your energy and time are better served elsewhere. You deserve better. I'm glad to hear you decided on your own to break up with him. Hope you take good care of yourself.