the Bad Guys

Yea, and the winners are often times people who put concerted effort into narratives they want to hear. That's why very few people talk about the Opium wars and those who do sanitize them or put the b…

The older I get. The more furious I am. The grieving process can be one hell of a rollercoaster sometimes. — I just had my birthday a few days ago. Here I am 26 years old and the older I get, I just don’t understand how someone can be this way. I’ve been NC for 2 years next month so I’m pretty chill, mostl…

Dumpers please enlighten me — I’m gonna make this as short as possible. Context: I (34F) got dumped 2 months ago (him 33M). We were together for 5 years and lived for 2. Without going into details his reasons were ‘incompatibi…

I was literally born in America and part of a small group of returnees who came back here because it's less chaotic and easier for us because of less racism. But even still the common belief here is t…

A lot of Asian guys have a screw you mentality, they don't care who gets hurt as long as they get paid. And then on top of that I suspect there's Asian men out there who were wronged by some other Asi…

Food poisoning happens from western brands such as Chipotle who do not source ingredients from China. But people will still go. Something happened once in China more than a decade ago, and China will …

This is dense, but all of it relates directly to your question, so bear with me... I had a major experience, but my memory of it was almost erased immediately afterward by an *external* force. I had…

Well certainly cheaters use all the cheap mental scripts that work on their minds to protect them from being the bad guys and justify their decisions. The thing is .... that nothing justifies what th…

I 1000% believe you. I know that sometimes I have bad days so I’m not the most polite person. But I’m never mean to people, yet (almost) everyone I encounter in my life is selfish and mean, sometime…