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r/AsianAmericanUpdated 30 days ago
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Wong Kim Ark video from Mother Jones

bruv, where's the actual quotes about if "UK common law" applies. YOUR DIRECT LINK states that the interpretation of the 14th amendment as INHERITED from the CONSTITUTION CONVENTION was derived from…

r/AsianAmericancomment4/6/2026
I(F28) have to have a tough conversation with my bf(M30), but I’m scared.

I(F28) have to have a tough conversation with my bf(M30), but I’m scared. — We’ve been together 8 years this July. Not married. It’s been a point of contention. We’ve been in a pretty rough spot since last year, and honestly, it’s only gotten worse this year. I’ve realized o…

r/relationshipspost3/8/2026
Why am I (27F) struggling with the thought of divorcing my husband (29M)?

Why am I (27F) struggling with the thought of divorcing my husband (29M)? — I (27F) have been with my husband (29M) for almost a decade. He’s my first and only relationship. We had our first child and got married all within the same year. In hindsight we probably never shoul…

r/Divorcepost4/5/2026
Do We Beakup? 29 F and M 48

Do We Beakup? 29 F and M 48 — So I 29F have been seeing M48 on and off for almost 6 years. Our relationship has gone through several ups and downs but our most recent argument has really thrown me for a loop. He was supposed to co…

r/relationship_advicepost4/5/2026
Please help my friend and I decide if we're unreasonable. How much time do you spend with your partner or spouse and if you live separately or together.

This is like "how long is a piece of string". Sounds like a matter of compatibility. If you want more "together time" then find someone who wants the same thing. If time together is a constant point o…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/9/2026
Is this an emotional affair?

I don't think it's an emotional affair, but it's clear to me you are imposing on their relationship, even unintentionally. Given that you were friends before this relationship started, he needs to de…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/19/2026
Is this an emotional affair?

>Are you okay being the point of contention in someone's romantic relationship? I will say that this friendship seems close enough that OP would end up a point of contention in most relationships thi…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/19/2026
Is this an emotional affair?

I don't disagree - the relationship is definitely his to manage, not OP's. But I honestly would not want to be the point of contention in someone's relationship regardless of how he felt about her be…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/20/2026
Is this an emotional affair?

I get that, but you can see it the other way around too. I don't think that romantic relationships are by default more important than friendship, especially if we're talking about a couple of months o…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/20/2026
Porn and Energy

Yes that was exactly my point, you summed it up well: That to solve this issue many straight men are having the focus has to be shifted from the porn to the person watching it. The question needs to b…

r/energy_workcomment3/8/2026
Grand Seiko announces global partnership with Shohei Ohtani

Well let’s not go that far. The Europeans still dominate in terms of prestige and resale value (which matters to a lot). But to their credit they have made massive strides in the past decade with mo…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/15/2026
I 20M broke up with my 21F girlfriend after she proposed to open up our relationship and now everyone is telling me to get back with her basically

Did you get an opportunity to explain to your parents while calm and collected? Because you arent wrong whatsoever, proposing an open relationship is already a point of contention for you, especially …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/25/2026
How early is too early to bring up sex and libido?

So I've definitely had conversation where I and the person I was seeing discussed how often we'd want to have sex in an ideal relationship.  It's been a while, and I can't remember the timing - but it…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/28/2026
nmom ruining my pregnancy by bullying my body — went no contact again and she won’t stop blowing up my phone

Covert narcs are the worst of them all imo. That’s what my mom is. No one plays the victimized martyr better than a covert narc. They believe their own delusions & revisionist history. I never under…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/28/2026
Update: my husband (33M) wants me (33F) to dress more revealing

Thanks for the update. I see where your issue is on this and honestly, don’t humor him on this topic again. After reading your comments, it is very clear that you’re conservative in appearance with yo…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/30/2026
‘BABIES OF SLAVES!’ Trump Drops Birthright Citizenship Rant Before 7AM on Monday

which is why Nov. 3, 2026 is such a point of contention right now... https://preview.redd.it/yis1rm7cwesg1.png?width=1208&format=png&auto=webp&s=e2be7feaed8a2bff8d4a1321d0a14009ee0a3911

r/AsianAmericancomment3/31/2026
It is REAL. It is easy.

Great post. Were there any specific videos of Tayler’s that made things click for you? Getting clear on what I really want is often a point of contention for me. For example, if it’s a money manifes…

r/nevillegoddardcomment4/5/2026
Tombstone

why do they obsess over our dead bodies. my aunt died early from a car crash, her tomb has spaces for the rest of the family (including her parents my grandparents) my nmom and my other aunt, and …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/5/2026
Wong Kim Ark video from Mother Jones

I am genuinely surprised that this is even a debate. Ask yourself this, if what you said is true, that the 1898 ruling had nothing to do with if the English Common law was applicable, then why did ma…

r/AsianAmericancomment4/5/2026
Moderate men matching with clearly liberal women?

I don’t believe human rights are “opinions”. Only conservatives want to talk about politics as a “difference of opinion”. Whether women should have completely autonomy over their bodies is not just a…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/5/2026
my gf (24F) wants me (25M) to go into our first home purchase but won't define her financial contribution, wants shared ownership and is thinking about breaking up with me because I don't have a "provider" mentality

Wow. Quite the entitlement in that family. Unfortunately that shit is usually inherited by children, because it is displayed their entire life, and they see it as normal. I am also curious about the m…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/6/2026
Wong Kim Ark video from Mother Jones

😂 I think u are now making up things I never said or opinions I don’t hold to win an argument. When I say “point of contention” I am referring to the legal merits that was discussed in the actual …

r/AsianAmericancomment4/6/2026
Thought on boyfriend watching POV porn?

Agreed. My fiancé hasn’t and doesn’t watch or like porn, and it’s not a point of contention for us. Personally I couldn’t be with someone who does watch it, I really do believe it affects your brain n…

r/relationshipscomment4/7/2026
How do I (30f) deal with repeated gift disappointment from my boyfriend (35m)

People always worry about the part where its like "you broke up over not getting the right present?" No. The gift giving brought forward a weakness in our relationship. When I tried to fortify and res…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/8/2026
My (32f) partner (37m) says I “don’t let him talk,” but he talks in circles for so long that I can’t even respond

I have been with my partner for almost 12 years and we had this problem at first. However, I will say your situation sounds a little more extreme in some regards, so not identical. Similarly my partne…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/8/2026
what’s a weird thing you guys do bcuz of neglect?

Yes!!! Forcing myself to go to the dr is so hard and such a big point of contention and pain because my parents wouldn’t take me to the dr. I too am an Epsom salt bath person. Also leaning how to co…

r/CPTSDcomment4/8/2026
The weight of Disclosure is on the shoulders of Experiencers.

> Why are all these people not capturing evidence of these beings interacting with them? Why is it just stories? > That if it happened too suddenly or too shockingly it would potentially be psycholo…

r/experiencerscomment4/9/2026
sexually frustrated and conflicted about sex life w bf M20 F20

Gonna have to agree here, especially if it's been two years. Sit down with him and ask him to earnestly tell you if he's serious about your relationship, as you've brought this issue up multiple times…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/10/2026
What do you think about ethnic churches and temples of Asian Americans?

Super late comment but what they might be talking about is the oversteps and corruption in political and social power that Buddhist clergy possessed toward the end of the Goryeo Dynasty due to their s…

r/AsianAmericancomment4/12/2026