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i told my mom the truth in front of everyone and now she won’t answer my calls

This 💯. If any of them circle back to get your side, maybe it is worth it but right now, they should all be flying monkeys in your book. Sometimes they make themselves known by telling you off on beh…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/6/2026
A year and I’m still stuck…

A year and I’m still stuck… — We knew each other for a year, dated and lived together for three. I wasn’t perfect but I didn’t pretend to be either. I was always told what I did wrong and it would also be told to other people. Yo…

r/BreakUpspost3/31/2026
What are the signs to spot a DA or FA in early talking stage?

Well, if you're into them, that's the first sign. It'll be tricky to differentiate between DA and secure for you because they'll both feel like they're moving at a reasonable pace at first, but a DA i…

r/attachment_theorycomment5/23/2025
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

> reach across the table I refuse to sit across from someone on a first date because I feel like having a table between us already makes the vibe feel like an interview. Are you going to places with …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/8/2026
r/datingoverthirtycomment2/12/2026
Anybody else notice people in other countries tend to doubt that you're American?

I got into a literal screaming match at the Parthenon with a Greek guy who kept asking me my nationality and would not accept "the United States" as an answer. He full on followed me down the hill and…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/8/2026
Eat, Pray, Love for white men

So saying racism is bad makes me a Trump supporter? Are you 12 with zero life experiences or someone in college AND zero life experiences? So which is it? Trump people are racist? Or Trump people …

r/AsianAmericancomment3/9/2026
Eat, Pray, Love for white men

It's a dumb cartoon. If the worst things that happen to you in your life is a stupid cartoon, you must live a charmed life. Also the interpretation of MY WORDS saying it's defending passport bros, isn…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/13/2026
Daffodils on a first date?

I would also be charmed by it. Not too many, maybe like half a dozen.

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/17/2026
My N mom started therapy and her first update made me sick

My mom has gone to therapy and *lied* for 20+ years. I went with her sometimes, and she was so enraged that the therapist "took my side" every time. She would say, "You charmed him!", like I tricked …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/23/2026
I just can’t believe my parents didn’t invest anything into my adulthood.

That's a good way of seeing it, i'm kinda new so my emotion's go from anger, to low a lot. Mainly because i've been looking for way's to heal to add to my tool belt, because i realize what a thing's …

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/31/2026
I’m intensely triggered by my partner’s younger sister and I hate what it brings out in me

I empathise, but please also for the sake of the other party, minimise your contact with her, i bet you she feels this energy from you. I totally understand you post and grief and life is so deeply u…

r/CPTSDcomment4/1/2026
How did you know your marriage was over?

Yeah, my high functioning autistic wife charmed me with her banter, brilliance, and her special interests. Not enjoying the increasing dislike of being touched now that we've been together 30 years,…

r/Divorcecomment4/2/2026
Why do I get so much attention as a Virgo rising?

Not a Virgo rising (or Virgo any of the big three), but I am so happy to see people calling Virgo misunderstood because this sign *is* very misunderstood. Virgo characteristics include being sharp, w…

r/AskAstrologerscomment4/3/2026
Anyone have a child with a covert narc?

I didn’t and I look back now and I’m so glad I didn’t. But I have a very good understanding of them from my own experience, and also what it’s like to be with one and have a child from the perspective…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment4/5/2026
Did you eventually forgive the affair partner?

It wasn't the AP who made vows to me and broke them, it was my (ex)husband. I hated the AP until I realized that she was just as charmed and duped by him as I was, and then I felt bad for her. She was…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/9/2026
No one seems to be asking questions

I've gone on one date in thei past 2yrs off OLD since my divorce and it was my first date in over a decade and first one in my 40s. We got along just fine, lots of good convos. Because this was my fir…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/11/2026